Happiness is...
I think you see the difference.
Dare 2 Share - One is happy as a result of one's own efforts, once one knows the necessary ingredients of happiness - simple tastes, a certain degree of courage, self-denial to a point, love of work, and above all, a clear conscience. Happiness is no vague dream, of that I now feel certain. - George Sand (1804 - 1876)
Are you happy? Are you sure? Im pretty sure that most people want happiness, yet Im also convinced that they are trying to gain it through all the wrong ways. Its almost as if their lives are like a long drive trying to get to a certain destination, but they keep taking mistaken turns and eventually are lost in a myriad of dead end streets.
Do you think that God wants you to be happy? Ive heard sermons from both sides- and I find it fascinating that those who think God is against happiness are generally pretty sour faced themselves. Conversely those who preach a gospel of giddy glee are usually livin' la vida loca!
For me, Id say yes and no. Yes God wants you to be happy, but not at the expense of being holy. Jesus actually gave us step by step instructions for inner joy- and the reason He took time to do that was because He really does care about the state of your personal being. He also delineates on delighting in life because He definitely wants you to watch out for the Devils guidebook to happiness.
So lets take a look at the blueprint of Jesus (Matthew 5:3-11) and the bull of the Devil (stuff I made up):
Jesus:
"You're blessed when you're at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule."
Satan:
Youre happy when you get your own way. With more of you there is less of that ridiculous God stuff."
Jesus:
"You're blessed when you feel you've lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you."
Satan:
Youre happy when you feel like you got everything youve ever wanted. Then you wont have to be embraced by anyone.
Jesus:
"You're blessed when you're content with just who you are--no more, no less. That's the moment you find yourselves proud owners of everything that can't be bought.
Satan:
Youll never be happy unless you are just like the beautiful people on magazines and in movies. Thats the moment youll find that everyone is jealous of you.
Jesus:
"You're blessed when you've worked up a good appetite for God. He's food and drink in the best meal you'll ever eat.
Satan:
Youre happy when you get away from the silly Sunday School talk. God is smoke and mirrors and His way is the worst way to live life.
Jesus:
"You're blessed when you care. At the moment of being "careful,' you find yourselves cared for."
Satan:
Youre happy when you only care about yourself. Those people out there dont deserve your concern.
Jesus:
"You're blessed when you get your inside world--your mind and heart--put right. Then you can see God in the outside world."
Satan:
Youre happy when you only concern is your outer world- looks, clothes, and toys."
Jesus:
"You're blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That's when you discover who you really are, and your place in God's family."
Satan:
Youre happy when you get on the side of the powerful people in the world. Thats when you make friends whom you can use later on."
Jesus:
"You're blessed when your commitment to God provokes persecution. The persecution drives you even deeper into God's kingdom. "Not only that--count yourselves blessed every time people put you down or throw you out or speak lies about you to discredit me. What it means is that the truth is too close for comfort and they are uncomfortable."
Satan:
Youre happy when your beliefs dont offend anyone. Who are you to push your morality on anyone else? Stay happy by keeping everyone else happy.
I think you see the difference
happiness is all in the eye of the beholder. Just keep in mind the Eye that beholds you is the only One who can see you through to true contentment.
Questions:
1) What or whom are you looking to for happiness?
2) Does Jesus or the Devil make more sense? Why?
3) Which of Jesus ideas are you willing to give a try?